In a Christian Marriage, Who’s in Charge?
In a Christian Marriage, Who’s in Charge? In the past, the issue of a power differential between men and women has been difficult to discuss objectively because it has been so highly politicized. Some believe …
The Mind-Reading Trap
The Mind-Reading Trap Your Partner Can’t Know What You’re Thinking (and That’s Okay) Have you ever expected your partner to know what you need without saying it out loud, then felt hurt when they didn’t …
7 Powerful Strategies for High-Conflict Couples
7 Powerful Strategies for High-Conflict Couples Every couple argues. But for some, conflict becomes a constant pattern — a familiar but exhausting cycle of blame, reactivity, and disconnection. These high-conflict relationships can feel like emotional …
Be Angry and Do Not Sin (How?)
The Role of Anger There is much being written today about social division and how people seem to be increasingly angry. I have seen an increase in the number of clients who come to my …
Why You’re Fighting About Chores: The Real Story Behind Everyday Conflicts
In many relationships, chores become a battleground, igniting passions and frustrations that often seem disproportional to the task at hand. Understanding why these disagreements arise can offer valuable insights into the deeper dynamics of the …
Sensate Focus: How To Restart Intimacy
There are many reasons couples can stop connecting sexually. These can include a fear of rejection, a high degree of conflict, past hurts, avoidance, and exhaustion. Sometimes it’s not that easy to just flip a …
